Library List: Winter Children's Books

I’m sitting on my couch next to our (electric) fireplace. The windows beside me are drafty, but I’m cozy under a blanket. Ah, winter.

As I mentioned in my Christmas book post, I love seasonal books. They feel especially valuable in winter when the weather can be a little dreary and we can get a little stir-crazy. Winter picture books can help our families focus on what’s cozy and special about this time of year.

I’m briefly venturing away from picture books and starting with Jasper and the Riddle of Riley’s Mine by Caroline Starr Rose. This is a middle grade adventure about two brothers who escape their abusive father and join the Klondike gold rush of 1879. This story saves most of its coziness for the very end, but it’s an exciting read with a bit of mystery. Though the story is fictional, the author includes an interesting note at the end that gives a few more details about the real-life characters and circumstances included in the novel.

This book is geared toward children in grades 4-7. Although the boys leave their rough home life by the end of the first chapter, those circumstances continue to provide context throughout the story. The brothers also face some other perilous situations along their journey. If your child is on the younger side of the recommended age range, you may want to read at least the first chapter and decide whether or not you think her or she is ready for it. Of course, if you enjoy this book as much as I did, you may find it hard to quit reading after just one chapter.

Although autumn is long-gone for most of us, I wanted to be sure to mention Goodbye Autumn, Hello Winter by Kenard Pak. I told you about his book Goodbye Summer, Hello Fall in my fall library list, and this one is just as delightful. I especially enjoy the way the story follows two children on a walk that takes them from the countryside into town, through a bustling city street, into their home, and back again, all while autumn leaves blow away and winter snowflakes arrive. Whether your family lives in the country, city, or suburbs, your children will likely see a glimpse of the familiar in this book.

I love the way The Tea Party in the Woods by Akiko Miyakoshi starts simply and quietly as Kikko walks through the snowy woods to her grandmother’s house. We get a tiny hint of the magic to come as the girl nearly catches up with her father just as he enters a mysterious house. When Kikko goes to investigate, she is thrust into a tea party that’s easily one of my favorite storybook depictions of hospitality. There’s also pie and a parade, so this is basically a book about my favorite things.

Wolf in the Snow by Matthew Cordell is another book about a little girl who encounters someone unexpected in the snowy woods. The only words in the story are the sounds the girl makes and hears on her trek. My four-year-old and I enjoyed looking at this book together, talking about what was happening, and guessing what would happen next.

We meet lots of farm animals who are hunkering down during winter’s first snow in A Home in the Barn. Caldecott Medalist Jerry Pinkney illustrated this previously unpublished book by Margaret Wise Brown. My boys loved studying the pictures on each page and discovering the details in and around the cozy, crowded barn.

No Two Alike is a sweet, cheerful book by Keith Baker. Two playful birds explore their forest home, celebrating the uniqueness of the snowflakes and everything they encounter. The book begins and ends with a refrain of “. . . almost, almost, but not quite,” which was especially cute to read with my two-year-old who loves to say “alllmost!”

Finally, if you have any vehicle-obsessed kids in your life, they will love these two books: The Little Snowplow by Lora Koehler and Jake Parker and Small Walt by Elizabeth Verdick and Marc Rosenthal. As you likely guessed, these books are about tiny snowplows with big hearts (engines?). Although they are very similar, the books are different enough to both be worth checking out. If you read both of them, I’d love to hear which one your family likes best.


What favorite winter books would you add to this list? Let me know in the comments!

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Guest Post: Three Proven Ways to Get More Done

Guest Post: Three Proven Ways to Get More Done

There was a time when life was so overwhelming that it left me exhausted and unfulfilled. There were so many days when I felt like I was running around from one thing to another, but by the end of the day, it didn't feel like I had actually accomplished anything. Have you been there? Those days when you never stopped moving and doing but the mountain of work didn't get any smaller? 

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My Word of 2018: A Look Back

My Word of 2018: A Look Back

Nearly a year ago, I sensed “brave” should be my word for 2018. It felt like a daunting choice then, and truth be told, admitting it to you here still feels a bit scary, a little too vulnerable.

I certainly haven’t mastered bravery.

But when I take off my self-critical glasses, I see that I have grown in bravery this year. I took some important steps forward. I sidled up to decisions that made me uncomfortable, even fearful, and chose to do them anyway.

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Six Things I’ve Learned: Fall 2018

Autumn is nearly over. The air outside is damp with the smell of the leaves beginning their return to the soil.

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Just a few days ago, these bright orange leaves stopped me in my tracks. I didn't have long to pause, but I didn't want to miss this part of fall's slow finale.

I found myself returning to this snapshot yesterday as I pondered my next right thing. If you’ve been paying attention here, you might not be surprised to learn this happened while I listened to Emily P. Freeman’s latest podcast episode, Look Back – How Reflection Can Help You Make Better Decisions.

Although, I'm getting better at setting goals and working toward them, I'm still not great about regularly and intentionally pausing to consider where I've been and what I've learned there.

I want to change that.

I love Emily's idea of using an accessible daily practice (just a single line per day) along with a heftier seasonal list of what she's learned. I’ve read a few of these What We Learned lists before, but yesterday I knew it was time for me to start taking part.

I haven’t been keeping track for the past three months, but I’m not going to stress over that. Here are a few random things that come to mind as I reflect.

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1. I need to pay attention to what drains me and what gives me life.

I can’t always avoid the things that drain me, but I can often make adjustments so they aren’t quite as exhausting. For instance, I love my adorable little Craigslist desk, but now that my workload is picking up, I’ve discovered it’s the wrong setup for my neck and back.

On the life-giving side, I love having early mornings to myself. For me, it’s worth missing a little sleep to start each day with peace and quiet.

2. I’m pretty sure I enjoy picture books just as much as my children do.

3. I’m a cozy minimalist at heart.

And I need more soft lines and natural shapes in my living room.

4. When DIYing a kid’s birthday party, spend time on one or two big things (that your kid will actually care about), and don’t stress about the details.

Jackson turned four earlier this month. When people asked what he wanted for his birthday, he repeatedly mentioned a rocket and planets, so we decided to surprise him with an outer space party.

I scavenged cardboard and asked Jonathan to build a rocket with it. Then I cut out and painted 2D cardboard planets to hang from the ceiling. We stayed up late the night before, but party prep was otherwise pretty simple. The cupcake frosting was a total rush job—sprinkles to the rescue!—and Jackson cared exactly 0%. But he was SO excited about the cardboard rocket ship. He and Caleb still play in it all the time.

5. A timer can be your prayer life’s BFF.

I just learned this a couple days ago, and it’s already been incredibly helpful. If you’re someone who wants to pray more but struggles to make the time, try setting a timer several times a day for just 1-5 minutes. Focus on a single topic and pray until your time is up.

6. I usually need plenty of time and space for creative work.

This overlaps a bit with #1. As I’m paying more attention and discovering the rhythms of life that work best for me, I’ve noticed I’m just not someone who can crank out a ton of my own content in a short amount of time. Maybe someday I’ll figure it out, but for now, accepting this reality helps me plan better and avoid feeling like a failure.

With advent about to begin, I’m looking forward to doing more of what author Shannan Martin calls “the ministry of paying attention.” I want to look for the beauty and the wisdom that are waiting if we simply have eyes to see and a willingness to reflect.


I’d love to hear some of what you’ve been learning too! Silly or serious, big or small, it’s worth sharing!

You’re welcome to leave a comment, or write your own post and join in the link up that Emily P. Freeman hosts here!

Lentil Stew Recipe + My Favorite Meal Planning Tool

This stew is just a tiny bit famous.

When my husband and I owned a gelato and coffee shop, this was one of our most popular lunch offerings.

I've always loved this stew. My mom got the recipe from Carolyn Leong, a sweet lady from the church we were part of while my dad worked on his doctorate. She recommended it because it's delicious but also easy and inexpensive to make.

The two keys are using the full tablespoon of salt and allowing plenty of time for the stew to simmer.

The original recipe also calls for sprinkling 1-2 tablespoons of flour over the onion and bell pepper while sautéing them. I got out of the habit of doing this because I wanted to offer several gluten-free options at our shop. But it works well if you like a thicker stew.

Lentil Stew Recipe

Lentil Stew

INGREDIENTS

1 TB olive oil

1 large onion, diced

1 large green bell pepper, diced

(1-2 TB all purpose flour, optional)

3 large carrots, peeled and sliced

1 (15 oz.) can diced tomatoes, with juice

1 lb. (approx. 2 cups) brown lentils, picked through and rinsed

1 TB salt

8 c. water

DIRECTIONS

  1. Heat oil on medium in a large pot. Add onions and bell pepper, and sauté until they begin to soften. If desired, sprinkle with flour, stir, and cook until edges just begin to brown.

  2. Add remaining ingredients and bring to a boil.

  3. Reduce heat to a low simmer, and cook until lentils are soft and liquid has reduced slightly, about 1 hour.

  4. Serve with crusty bread or herbed focaccia.

Plan to Eat

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I've subscribed to PTE for a few years, and I use it a lot, especially now that their mobile app is up and running beautifully! If you're someone who tends to use the internet as a cookbook, PTE provides a super convenient way to compile and organize your recipes AND automatically generate shopping lists based on the recipes you’ve planned.

Because the sale lasts a whole week, you could even use most of their free seven-day trial and still have time to get in on the discount.

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Library List: Thanksgiving Picture Books

Thanksgiving Day is nearly here! It’s not too late to make a quick trip to the library for some books your kids can read on the drive to Grandma’s. Here’s a short but sweet list of books that can help your family get ready for Thanksgiving Day—and cultivate a spirit of gratitude throughout the year.

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We Are Grateful: Otsaliheliga by Traci Sorell and Frané Lessac

I love this book! It follows a Cherokee family and their practice of gratitude through all four seasons of the year. Each of the topics feature one or more Cherokee words written three ways: English transliteration, English phonetic spelling, and Cherokee syllabary. My four-year-old, Jackson, and I had fun practicing the new-to-us words together. The author, a citizen of the Cherokee Nation, beautifully explains how this community embraces their dual citizenship by honoring their history, keeping their Native culture alive, and serving our country. This book provides a warm and lovely look at contemporary Native American culture and encourages year-round gratitude.

Squanto’s Journey by Joseph Bruchac and Greg Shed

This is a fascinating and beautiful account of the first Thanksgiving, told from Squanto’s perspective. There were too many words per picture for Caleb, my not-quite-two-year-old, but Jackson stayed interested during the whole story. The author worked hard to make it historically accurate, so it does mention heavy topics such as slavery and death. You’ll want to be ready with age-appropriate ways to answer questions that your children may have, but please don’t let that stop you from sharing this excellent book with the kids in your life. The overall message is still very hopeful.

Duck and Hippo Give Thanks by Jonathan London and Andrew Joyner

This is a silly and sweet story of a hippo who wants to have perfect “good old-fashioned Thanksgiving.” His quirky duck friend seems to be thwarting his plans, but [spoiler alert] she actually helps him see what’s most important about the day.

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Here’s another sweet and fun book that centers around a Thanksgiving Day meal. It’s written with a rollicking rhyme scheme, and there’s a twist near the end that my boys thought was hilarious.

Giving Thanks: More Than 100 Ways to Say Thank You by Ellen Surrey

I was initially skeptical about this book. Reading 100 of anything in a single sitting seemed likely to be more than my boys’ attention spans could handle. I’m so glad I went ahead and brought it home. They both loved it! There’s a lot to look at in this bright and fun book, but it’s organized in a way that doesn’t feel overwhelming.

I hope you and yours have a wonderful Thanksgiving, and may our hearts be filled with gratitude all year long!  


What are your favorite reads for Thanksgiving? Please share them in the comments!

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Writing Tip: Avoid Passive Voice--Usually

When I was a sophomore in high school, I had a fantastic English teacher. Mrs. Shirley was a former basketball player with a voice that hinted at Julia Child’s in the very best of ways. She simultaneously held her students to a high standard and lavished us with kindness.

She also had some quirky requirements for term papers. Most formidably, we weren’t allowed to use any form of the verb “to be.” “Am, is, are, was, were, be, being, been” were all off limits.

As challenging as this rule was at first, it taught me to look for and use a wider variety of words.

It also helped me break out of my passive voice habit.

(Although, you can write a passive sentence without “to be” and an active sentence with it.)

When left to our own devices, a lot of us tend toward writing in the passive voice, especially when trying to explain complex ideas. Passive voice isn’t incorrect (see below), but active voice is almost always clearer.

What are passive voice and active voice?

In active voice, you (or whoever) do the thing. In passive voice, the thing is done by you (or whomever).

Clear as mud?

Here’s another example. “My toddler wrecked the living room,” is active. “The living room was wrecked by my toddler,” is passive.

Notice that the subject of the first sentence, “my toddler,” does the action, “wrecked the living room.” The second sentence conveys the same information, but the subject is now “the living room,” which passively receives the action. We don’t find out who did the wrecking until the end of the sentence.

This more-info-at-the-end structure makes the passive voice a little—sometimes a lot—harder to follow. Active voice is more succinct and is thus easier for readers to understand.

But please note, passive voice isn’t wrong.

A passive sentence conveys a different tone than an active one. Sometimes that may be just what your writing needs. Writing coach Ann Kroeker says, “Write tight but add when you must.” She shares examples of how to do so in episode 168 of her podcast.

You can also use passive voice to emphasize an action, such as a research process, rather than the person who did it. Scientific texts often have more instances of passive voice because some writers believe it helps them maintain an objective tone. However, a sentence can be written both objectively and actively, so it's still best to use active voice as much as possible. (Did you notice that sentence used passive voice? :) )

Summary:

  • To spot passive voice, look for a sentence's subject that receives rather than does.

  • Passive voice isn’t evil, but if you can use active voice, do.

Finally, here are two more things Mrs. Shirley made sure I’ll never forget: “Alot” is not a word, and don’t forget the second “O” in sophomore!


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Related Resources

The Hemingway App is a fun way to analyze your writing, including how often you use passive voice. But take the evaluation with a grain of salt. As Ann Kroeker points out in the podcast episode I mentioned above, Hemingway himself doesn’t always win the app’s approval.

Check out this article from Yoast for information about how passive voice can affect search engine optimization (SEO).

As you may have guessed from many of the links above, I’m a big fan of Grammar Girl, Mignon Fogarty. I always check with her when I run into a sticky grammar issue or need a quick refresher.